I’m not gonna lie. I’ve been liking this girl for quite a while now and I just figured out that she’ll be a friend and that’s all it could be. I treat her like the angel she is. I’m never going to tell her that I like her because I don’t want to ruin what we have as friends. Whenever we hang out, I get butterflies in my stomach that I just want to shit out because of the fact that it will never be more than just friends.
The reason why I never told her, yet I know she would never dig someone like me is because she likes…JERKS. Fuck my life bro. JERKS. Nice guys always finish last. No matter the situation. I took a girl out on a date to dinner and a movie one time and nothing came of that. We’re JUST FRIENDS. I paid for the dinner and everything. Hell, I don’t even talk to her anymore and that’s why I feel so abused with girls like that. They’re just GIRLS. Not women, just GIRLS.
“Girls like bad BOYS. WOMEN like nice GUYS.” Tell me a girl that would date a nice guy like me and I’ll show you a good time. HAHAHA. No. Really. I believe all women have a chance at being treated like a queen. To be treated like a woman is supposed to, with respect. But if the only way to your heart is to treat you like a dick, then I have way less respect for you. Independent woman or not, you’re not independent because you don’t know what’s the difference between good and bad. There was a time where this other girl I dated told me about every guy she dated after me and how each and every one of them didn’t call her back. It’s a game ladies. It’s a game.
Haven’t you heard of the 3 day rule? A guy gets your number, doesn’t call you for 3 days, and then all of a sudden, they call? It’s a game. Don’t play it. If a guy treats you like a “game”, then it’s fair play. Let’s face it, every guy and girl wants to play hard to get but during those 3 days, both of you guys are sweating bullets. The girl is stuck at home, IM’ing or tweeting to her homegirls about, “Is he going to call me? I really like him. He’s cute.” And the guy is thinking at the same time, “Should I call her? No. I don’t want to seem too anxious.”
So, instead of playing games, instead of hiding behind corners, I’m going to sit here while all these jerks come to you. When you’re ready for a real relationship, I’ll be here. I’m not going to wait but if the heart allows to, I will be here, ready for you. Until then, I’m fine with being a GOOD GUY and being a GREAT FRIEND.
For all you boys spitting game, I want you to understand that you’re being fake. If that is the true you, then I feel sorry for the girl you’re dating because you’re just a dick. I know some of my friends that are like that. Just dicks and I think to myself, “Their girlfriend deserves so much better.” I’m not talking about me but that woman needs a good guy. So quit being fake and show your true side. Otherwise, you’re just another two-faced person.
“I’d rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not.” –Freddie from AutoFashion
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