So this past week, the homie/bromie/cousin came to San Diego, we’ll call him David, to visit his wifey and others. We made a pact that when he is here, we would go out to the bars/clubs and do drink. Well, last night was a turn of events. He originally came here for a girl that I met through friends (I guess you can say that). I introduced David to this girl and they hit it off from the get-go… well, more like she hit him off from the get-go.
Yes, I said wifey. David is 21 years old with a wife but during this time, their marriage was going downhill. Wifey had enough of having to wait for David (David is stationed overseas) and David was tired of waiting, as well. Well, David met this girl, we’ll call her Trisha. Trisha and David really hit it off. It came to the point where David would leave the video games to simp (see urbandictionary.com for meaning) with Trisha. It didn’t really hit me at first but it got ridiculous.
Trisha and David were talking about getting dogs and David sent her flowers for her birthday and that is when shit hit the fan. David always wanted to be on good terms with Wifey but Wifey was way too hurt. Long story made short, David ended up reconciling with Wifey and totally dished Trisha.
Here’s where it gets interesting. David was supposed to fly out to San Diego to be with Trisha but it ended up being to be with Wifey after all. The homie Anthony and I were glad he did the “right” thing I guess but the way David handled it was really poor and he knows that.
Last night, @Mr_Moralde aka Reggie, @halfblack_mamba aka Burnett, and @nerdVITZ aka DAVID went out to PB Bar and Grill and it got really awkward. Here’s a play by play of what went down.
We went to PB Bar and Grill and David found out that Trisha was there because I invited her because she’s my friend, too. I didn’t expect either to say hi or hang out with each other anyways. Boy was I wrong. I saw some of the high school homies and we were chillin and then Trisha comes behind me and says what’s up. We made our way back to the table and Trisha said what’s up to EVERYONE except David and it was an instant joke to even be there.
The night wore on and the only thing separating Trisha and David at the table was me. Go figure. It got real awkward and I was super buzzed. My homie Anthony broke the ice and said they should at least ACKNOWLEDGE each other and say what’s up and David was like, “Hi. How are you?” It meant nothing. It even SOUNDED fake but it was said and Trisha said nothing in return. And that is where my night ended.
I’m very hospitable. I want EVERYONE to have a good time. Mind you, I spent about $150 on drinks last night. If I remember correctly, it was 13 shots of Hennessey, 13 Coke chasers, 3 Cokes for David, 2 Coronas, and 1 Hefeweizen. I want to take care of everyone. I don’t care how much money I have to spend as long as everyone is having a good time, and last night was until that point. Trisha was on her phone for the rest of the night. We all went to grab Mexican food afterwards and she didn’t step out of the car.
I want everyone happy and the way David handled the situation between him and Trisha was very poor. You guys are right, I’ll never understand but at the same time, I can put petty shit away for a good time. Call me a hater, call me whatever but I’m speaking the truth. I hate it when one person in my group is not even chillin. If you kick it with me (and if I’m buzzed enough), I’ll keep asking you “are you good?! ARE YOU GOOD?!” and my friends can attest to that. I want to be a great host. I want everyone to have a good time. That being said, I’m not gonna go out for a while anymore cuz last night straight pissed me off. My knuckles hurt this morning from punching the bench at that Mexican spot.
By the way, Happy Valentine’s Day.
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